About Me

Washington, DC, United States
Heather Capell Bramble is mother of two kaleidoscoping kids, Jonah and Vera. She has a magical kaleidoscope, often in her back pocket, and it usually helps her turn her normally chaotic life into something beautiful. Her goal is to have as much fun and try to be as happy as they can while on the uncharted journey of motherhood. This means doing lots of arts and crafts, going on crazy adventures, and celebrating all kinds of holidays - and yes, trying to laugh along the way!
Showing posts with label rose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rose. Show all posts

Sunday, May 6, 2012

What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet...

Shakespeare got it wrong!  Names are important.  I won't use nail polish unless I like the name and it goes "with me" at the given time... I did not pick certain colors of paint for our new house, because I did not like the name... I won't order a sandwich in a deli if it has a name I don't like... I am just a little bit wacky or maybe "superstitious" like that.  I just got my toes done at the salon here at The Luxor hotel (remember I am in Vegas, and yes I am blogging...) and I had to get a color I like with a name that meant something... I chose OPI "Dusk in Cairo" - we are staying at the Luxor... 

Again I digress.

Last Sunday we had Vera's naming.  I wrote up a "handout" on her names - English and Hebrew.  This is what I wrote.

* * *
Vera Paulina
 uyap drw
(Pronounced: Vered Fay-eh)

Born
March 30, 2011
Chicago, Illinois

Naming Ceremony
April 29, 2012
Washington, D.C.

Vera has many names and each is symbolic and important to us.  Below is a short description of her names and the people after whom she is named.

Auntie Vera
Jocelyn’s Auntie Vera was a wonderful woman.  She wouldn’t sit down until you allowed her to help you.  Always doing little crafts or making things for Jocelyn and others, she was a true “mensch” in every sense of the word – A Good Person.  Jocelyn has loving and found memories of her Auntie Vera.  Vera will always know that her namesake, Auntie Vera, made people smile, took care of those around her, and made the world just a little bit better because she was in it.  We hope that Vera will grow and embody these same qualities of being thoughtful and caring, as well as having a heart overflowing with goodness.

Grandma Pauline
Heather’s paternal grandmother, Pauline, was a special person.  She raised two children by herself at a time when that was almost unheard of.  She worked her whole life and then when she was able to retire, she adventured all over the world by herself.  Heather’s favorite memories of her grandmother include receiving wonderful postcards with fantastic photos on them from exotic places (at least to a young child – like Mardi Gras in New Orleans!)  She always brought Heather back dolls or other magical trinkets.  Today, Heather is sure her that her thirst for traveling adventures began when she was a little girl and grandma Pauline filled her head with interesting pictures of the world.  We hope that Vera will have this same adventurous spirit combined with Pauline’s strong will and courage.  Vera will have Paulina as her middle English name (from Pauline) as well as Pauline’s Hebrew name as her second Hebrew name.

Bubbe Rose
Heather & Jocelyn’s sister-in-law, Stacey, had a Bubbe, and her name was Rose.  Although, Heather & Jocelyn met Bubbe Rose later in life, they loved her just the same.  Vera’s Hebrew name is Vered.  Vered means Rose in Hebrew.  Bubbe Rose was an amazing woman.  She was a true pioneer, had an independent spirit and a heart full of love.  Whether it was being a women in the American armed forces during WWII stationed in French Polynesia or being married to the love of her life for almost her entire adult life, Bubbe Rose did it all with style.  We hope that Vera will carry Bubbe Rose’s independent and loving spirit in her heart.  As an added bonus, Vera will share being named after Bubbe Rose with her wonderful cousin, Rayna, who also holds this honor.

Vera’s full Hebrew name is
Vered Fayeh

VERED:  Her first name means Rose.  That’s the easy one!

FAYEH:  The second name has many meanings, spellings, pronunciations, connotations, and derivations.  We have chosen “Fay-eh” which can mean fairy. 

We’d like to think that Vera’s Hebrew name conjures up a magical garden in which the wise and empathetic “fairy of the roses” lives.  In this garden, things grow, know, flourish, learn, live and become as wonderful as they can be.  The Rose Fairy tends to the garden and nurtures it: protecting, cultivating and adorning it.  This is Vera’s garden – a magical place for her to become the amazing woman she was meant to be.  We can only imagine (and hope) that Auntie Vera, Grandma Pauline and Bubbe Rose will forever visit this garden and leave our Vera special notes of gardening advice on how to navigate her life, which we know will be filled with inclement weather, mysterious weeds, as well as unexpected, but glorious buds and newly discovered flowers.

We hope that today’s ceremony and party honors this image and spirit.

Most importantly, we are grateful that you were here to celebrate with us.  Thank you for helping us to celebrate Vera’s first year, her first garden party, and the giving of her name.  This past year has been a wonderful yet difficult year for our family.  It is only because of all of you, our family and friends, that our family is able to rejoice and be happy today with all of you.

Thank you!

Keep growing and sowing the seeds of love, health and happiness!

To Life!
L’Chaim!

All our love,
Heather, Jocelyn, Jonah & Vera
April 29, 2012
Washington, D.C

Vera's Female Roles Models from Yesterday!

Auntie Vera

Grandma Pauline

Bubbe Rose

Vera's Roses



Vera's Female Role Models of Today!


Grandma Joy!


Mommy, Mama, GG & Nana!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Garden Party Groovin' & Growin'


Last week, Pop Pop sent me an email in the lead up to Vera's Garden party.  He said, you really should listen to the old song "Garden Party" by Ricki Nelson (see lyrics and link to song here).  He wrote, "It is a good song, you should play it at Vera's party."

Of course I waited till this morning to get Jocelyn to download it.  We did and I love it!  It totally fit our party!

There is a great line that goes like this:

"But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself"

Well, I am not sure about everyone, but today's party I pleased myself!  And I hope I pleased Vera!  It was all for her and she seemed to have a great time!

It worked out in the end: the weather, the food, the guests, the theme!  Thinking about it now, I am so happy!  I often write about how happy things make my kids-but today I got to say, I worked my butt off kaleidoscoping around and with a ton of chaos trying to make something amazing and beautiful for my awesome little girl-and it was, and I am happy.  I could not have done it without a ton of help from a lot of my family and friends-whether it was people lending me folding chairs, taking pictures, bringing salads, playing with the kids, smiling, showing up, blessing us or CLEANING UP!  I hope you all know who you are-I love you and you made today great.

THANK YOU!
The highlights from my kaleidoscope of today's pretty terrific garden party:

(1) the naming ceremony: Vera was awesome, and so was Rabbi Toby.  Vera actually was reading and following along in the Rabbi's prayer book. She drank real wine from a real Kiddush cup (from my bat mitzvah).  She was wrapped in a talit. And at the end of the whole thing, we kissed her and said Amen.  She got down on the floor, stood on her own two feet, wobbled over to Nana who was sitting just steps away and gave herself a big smile, Nana a big hug and then clapped.  Like I said, my Vera knows and grows!  Right in front of our eyes!

(2) the dirt bar:  we had a dirt bar!  (inspired by a number of ideas I have seen on Pinterest) I had flowers pots filled with seeds (M&Ms), beans (jelly beans), bugs (gummy), worms (gummy), butterflies and caterpillars (lolly pops), flowers (sugar cupcake toppers), flower stakes (pretzel rods) and a bucket of dirt (crushed oreos and chocolate cake).  Each kid got a flower pot and went at it.  Really you just need to look at the pics.  Kids and candy in a planting simulation experience-WOW!

(3) Vera eating her cake:  she was so happy eating with no bib, with her own spoon sitting on Mama's lap!  Totally what first birthdays are about!

(4) GG being here to see Vera get her Hebrew name, Vered, which means Rose:  It was a really big trip for GG (my grandma and Vera's great grandma)  (I wrote about GG here)  She is very tired but she made it to this party.  Her 7th great grandchild turning one.  This makes me very happy.  She wasn't at the party the entire time as she needed to rest.  But there were certain moments, you could see GG being happy and in those moments she was beautiful.

(5) post party dinner with kids outside: about 5pm both kids were hungry so we sat down just us three and they ate. not sure why, but it was good-very good.  The weather was perfect and the party was over-all was good!

Hi Rabbi!  I like your bling!

Hey Mama!  I want a yarmulke too!

And I want to read the prayers too!

Really, I want to read them!

Big brother and Nana watching!

getting my blessing!

Vera takes a walk and a bow!

Cake Time!!


DIRT BAR!!!!


My name is Jonah and I want the worms!

As many as possible please, my dirt needs to be aerated!


GG looking good!  In her spot by the window!  She loves to watch out the window-and so does Vera!

It's my party and I am eating (and loving) my cake!  When is the next party mom?